Big Apple Counseling
Get Help With Trauma
Dr. Matthew Paldy
Trauma is a Complex Emotional Response

"If we are to be an understanding relational home for a traumatized person, we must tolerate, even draw upon, our own existential vulnerabilities so that we can dwell unflinchingly with his or her unbearable and recurring emotional pain. When we dwell with others’ unendurable pain, their shattered emotional worlds are enabled to shine with a kind of sacredness that calls forth an understanding and caring engagement within which traumatized states can be gradually transformed into bearable painful feelings." - Robert Stolorow

YOU CAN DISCOVER YOUR OWN RESILIENCE
You Swing Between Anger, Sadness, and Numbness.

Trauma often leads to negative beliefs about oneself, others, and the world. I can help you understand and ease these negative beliefs by understanding their origin and fostering a more positive and adaptive self-orientation. I can help you navigate and process intense emotions related to the trauma, such as guilt, shame, anger, and grief.

YOUR PAST DOES NOT HAVE TO DICTATE YOUR FUTURE
You Feel Disconnected from Yourself.

I'll help you transcend your trauma and feel more open and expansive. With self-understanding and exploration of the trauma's effects you can reduce the distress associated with the traumatic experience and integrate it into a broader understanding of your life story.

CREATE A NEW NARRATIVE
Working Through Trauma Will Change Your Life.

I can help you develop effective coping skills to navigate triggers and stressors related to your trauma. I can help you develop resilience by focusing on building adaptive coping mechanisms, fostering healthy relationships, and strengthening your sense of self.

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GET HELP WITH TRAUMA